Summer is here and we are thinking of YOU

What a wonderful time of year. Summer is here, school is out, vacation and fun time is here, gardening and yard work is great, and . . . oh! So goes the daydreaming - YOU are a Caregiver. What a beautiful word - Caregiver: one who "gives care" to another in need of care. And yes, it also means that things change. Longer hours, changes in schedules, moving rugs and furniture, additional night lighting indoors, different door/window locking mechanisms, and other changes. Each Caregiver will have unique circumstances and obstacles to overcome that will take time and may come in time. However, my Caregiver friend; You Are Not Alone. Alzheimer's Services of the Capital Area in Baton Rouge is here to help guide you through your transition.

A "sense" of normalcy is important relating to time of year, seasons, retaining their "my familiar home" place; even with your home. Here are a few suggestions to assist you in your daily venture.

1. Have them decorate their room(s) with their personal belongings. Even if somewhat abstract, let them have things where they are comfortable, if possible.
2. Use basic inexpensive decorations inside the house for holidays, even Valentine's Day, Mardi Gras, St. Patrick's Day, Spring, Summer, etc. . . This will assist in keeping them oriented to time of year/season. They are a great visual/sensory stimulator.
3. Whenever possible, let them assist you with tasks. Basic gardening, simple kitchen or household tasks, light shopping. Shopping should be at smaller stores with less "acreage" to walk and parking close to the store as not to fatigue before the shopping is completed.
4. If they previously attended church and social clubs, allow them to continue as long as they are able. They can also join local clubs that fit their age, interests, and abilities. Encourage interaction, not isolation. Charlie's Place Respite Center is located in a addition to the Alzheimer's Services of the Capital Area building.
5. Ask your family member what they would like to do. If they are not sure, give them suggestions of things they previously had an interest in. Though they may shy away from past enjoyment since they may realize they have changed. Continue to encourage them with what they are able to do. Everyone likes to be appreciated.

Note: Try to avoid tasks that are tedious, have multiple steps, or are physically/mentally straining. Choose simple tasks that are easy to understand and be patient. They may prefer their favorite music, instrumental music or quiet when performing tasks. It is easier to talk without television or distractions. Change tactics to see which ones work best for you both. During time together, talk as you would to others, using a more clear and unhurried speech. Have their hearing checked regularly to insure they are hearing you and others talking to them. It is important they feel included, not excluded. Say "If this were me, what would I like/dislike? How would I feel?"

If your family member is still caring for most of their own personal needs and are comfortable with LIGHT travel, then here are some tips.

1. Keep the temperature comfortable, i.e., not too hot, not too cold. (You may need to have a light sweater or thin blanket and/or ice pack available.)
2. When traveling in a vehicle, take an ice chest/cooler with water, soft drinks, diabetic soda's if necessary, and snacks.
3. Have Medic Alert bracelet/necklace with allergies. Safe Return is also very vital for those with dementia or Alzheimer's. Sew a label with name and complete phone number in clothing in an inconspicuous place if bracelet/necklace is lost.

Long distance trips may not be appropriate and safe for some. If they are uncomfortable, nervous, or afraid around crowds, loud speakers (airports), constant talking, confusing directions, fast paced situations, being rushed or claustrophobic, may cause further fear, frustration, withdrawal, and agitation.

• Mini day trips are great. Just remember, you want the trip to be fun, safe, and enjoyable. Avoid holidays and in the summer after lunch. Avoid fast-paced time schedules. Take the time - Relax.
• An early morning weekday at the Mall with lunch.
• A trip to a Museum or an Art Gallery.
• Historical buildings/homes are usually relaxing.
• Visit with friends, neighbors, nearby family members, and grandchildren.

Now for the summer fun you were dreaming about. If you need a day at the beauty shop, a night out on the town or to dinner, to run errands, a day trip or just a break. We would like to assist you to find those services you need. We are here for YOU.

T.L. Marler, QDCP
Respite Center Assistant